We don't need to set the ID to "" in read-modify-write helpers, because
once they're done, we read anyways to update state based on the changes.
And that read checks if the binding/member still exists, and does the
SetId("") if it doesn't.
This way, we stick with state only getting set based on the API state,
not by what we think the state will be.
Use the new projectIamPolicyReadModifyWrite helper to manage the RMW
loop for our policy member resource.
Handle the case of having a binding server-side that doesn't have the
member we expect more elegantly.
Adds the google_project_iam_member resource, which just ensures that a
single member has a single role.
google_project_iam_member should not be used to grant permissions to a
role controlled by google_project_iam_binding or to a policy controlled
by google_project_iam_policy, as they'll fight for control.